Intermediate 3: Relationships, Sex & Family

Every chart lives among other charts. This path takes the BodyGraph out of isolation and follows it into partnership, parenting and group life. Jovian Archive has gathered Ra Uru Hu's lectures on these subjects into 32 lessons, about 45 hours, delivered as audio, video and an ebook.

The heart of the partnership material is the connection chart. When one person holds one gate of a channel and the other person holds the gate on the other side, the channel lights up between them, and that electromagnetic pull is often what attraction feels like. The same map shows three other patterns. Companionship is where both people have the same channel. Compromise is where one person has the whole channel and the other has only one of its gates. Dominance is where one person has a channel and the other has neither gate. Seeing these clearly takes a great deal of personal blame out of a relationship.

My training says any relationship dynamic can work, so long as each person is being their own Authority. A connection chart shows where the real work between two people lies, and each of them finds out through their own experiment whether to take it on. Two people who are each experimenting with their own Strategy and Authority do not need a perfectly harmonious chart, and two people who are not will not be saved by one.

From couples the path widens to families and groups. It covers the aura, parenting, and the Penta and the Wa, Ra's mechanics for what happens when more people share a space. The Penta is the mechanic behind every family and every small team, which is why group dynamics sit on the same path as partnership: the more beings in the aura, the more the mechanics change.

This is the path to point to for anyone who has started reading a partner's or child's chart and is tempted to turn it into a verdict. It gives you the mechanics, and the mechanics are much kinder than a compatibility score.